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Advice to My Daughter About Getting Her First Job

Advice to My Daughter About Getting Her First JobDo you remember your first job? My daughter went on her first job interview yesterday and it has started an avalanche of memories of where I was, and what my first “real job” was when I was her age. My friends have all chimed in as well, recounting the crazy things they did to earn a buck – all before technology really existed for most people.

As the daughter of two entrepreneurs, she has never known what life was like for her father and I when we were not business owners. We started our company full time when she was a baby. She has grown up knowing the lingo of the entrepreneur. Client meetings, networking events, customers coming and going to pick up their computers, this is all very normal to our kids.

But the truth is: entrepreneurship really did not kick in for me until my late 20’s. I had a lot of jobs including waitressing, telemarketing, secretarial, government, corporate, retail, grocery store, and I was even a chiropractic assistant. It’s not that I was a job hopper for no good reason, but that I was constantly in search of what was going to make me happy. What was going to make me be excited to get out of bed for every day? What would motivate me so much that I would spend money, time and energy to do it?

That’s the rub, isn’t it? What would I say to her? How do I counsel her on this? So I made a list of all the things I learned throughout my many jobs and throughout my youth that I wish someone would have told me.

Intern or shadow someone.  If you are truly interested in doing something for a living, no matter what it is, go find someone who is doing it right now. Get to know the industry, the clients that come and go, the exciting tasks and the mundane tasks. Dig in while you are young and can see without bias or the pressure of making money. It will save you later if you find out that this is not something you want to spend the rest of your life, or a good portion of it, doing. The last thing you want is to spend your first two years in college majoring in something you hate. That is the mistake I made.

Are you good at it? So what. Just because you are a really good at something, doesn’t mean that is what you need to build your career around. I am really good at a lot of things, but I don’t necessarily enjoy them. Don’t get pressured into taking a job that you will eventually hate that will kill your spirit.

Ask a million questions. Don’t be afraid. People love to talk about themselves and what they do. Ask friends, family, neighbors, whomever. Interview a wide variety of people.

Don’t be afraid of risks. I took the easy road a lot of the time out of fear. What a waste of time. You are young. Take risks. If you hate it, you move on.

Don’t let your age hold you back. You are so lucky the Internet is what it is today. Kids today are becoming millionaires on YouTube doing what they love. And that is awesome! You are coming from a place where the world is your oyster and all you need is a good smart phone and Internet access to make a name for yourself. You are never to young to make money.

Buy your name’s URL. This is just good advice. Thought I would add it.

Surround yourself with people that know more than you. This is really the only way to grow and learn. If you are not learning from people you are around, it is time to move on.

As I put this list together, it occurred to me that this is also the list for anyone who wants to start their own business. Every single point applies to that scenario as well. Isn’t that funny? That the very thing we are trying to teach our kids about following their dreams we should be doing ourselves? I’m just going to let you take that in for a moment…..

So it is with great hesitation and also great pride that I push my baby bird from the nest and let her test her wings. But if you find yourself wanting to open your own business, and you need someone to give you a little push from the nest, give me a call.