Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored. — Aldous Huxley
If you are going to become more successful – you have to face what isn’t working in your business. Over the years, I have coached a lot of entrepreneurs and the one thing that is consistent with all of them: DENIAL. They are stuck, they don’t know how to grow, but when you dig deeper you find they are just in denial of what they already know to be true – something they are doing is just plain not working. But instead of dealing with it, they are in denial over it. They think if they keep their head down and keep pushing forward everything will turn out fine. This couldn’t be further from the truth. So let’s break it down.
“Doing more of what doesn’t work won’t make it work any better” — Charles Givens
A big piece of denial is, in a word, fear. It is based on the notion that something even worse than the current situation not working will happen once they stop doing what they are doing and take action to fix it. Change can be scary and very difficult, but the definition of insanity is to keep doing what you always do and expect a different result. It takes courage to look at your situation and truly assess what worked and what didn’t and then make the proper changes. Just because you were taught or told to do something a certain way does not necessarily mean it will work. You have to get over the fear – you have to get comfortable with being uncomfortable. (This was a major piece of advice my coach and mentor told me ten years ago.) The good news is, the more you face uncomfortable situations and deal with them, the better you get at it. Then being uncomfortable just becomes part of your life as you grow more successful.
A perfect example is when I work with all of my new video clients. At first, they are terrified of being on camera, saying something inaccurate, not looking their best….the list goes on. But with determination and learning from the past, they quickly become more comfortable and effective at what they are doing.
Shit or get off the pot. –Emil Rombach
Okay, so we know we need to change. The next thing I see once people accept that something needs to change is what I call analysis paralysis. They start looking at different ways they can be doing things and then get overwhelmed with all the options. This freaks them out, which leads back to fear, which leads back to not facing what is not working. The world is full of flat squirrels who couldn’t make up their mind to cross the street.
If you have done your homework, and looked at the numbers, whatever it is cannot possibly be that bad. So what if trying something new doesn’t work? At least you learned what doesn’t work – you faced what wasn’t working and tried something else. Now you know two things that don’t work. However – what if it does? It could be the best thing for your business but you are too stuck analyzing to death every detail and hesitating to pull the trigger to find out. Get over it. Make a decision.
Okay – we need to face what is not working. So what do we do now?
Commit To Take Action
There is a difference between interest and commitment. When you’re interested in doing something, you do it only when it’s convenient. When you’re committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results. — Ken Blanchard
Make a list of what is and what is not working. Ask your staff or your team members what their opinion is. Gather your information. How can you improve? What action steps do I need to take in order to make this change? Once that happens – you have to be 100% committed to those action steps. See it through.
Get Help If You Need It
Because so often when we say we’re unqualified for something, what we’re really saying is that we’re too scared to try it, not that we can’t do it. — Jen Sincero
Another part of fear is fear of the unknown. But you have to move past that fear. If you don’t know how to do something to change your situation, then ask for help. Hire an expert, hire an accountability partner or other professional who does this every day. Enlist in a class that will teach you how to do it. Attend a training – whatever it takes. I guarantee there are tons of training programs online that can assist you in whatever you need to learn if you are wanting to do this yourself. But remember: DELEGATE is NOT a dirty word. If someone else doing what needs to be done gets the ball rolling – then for heaven’s sake hire them. Stay focused on YOUR core genius – what you like to do – and let someone else handle what you don’t want to do.
I see this often with my video clients, which is how they eventually get to me. They don’t have the time to not only do it, but learn to do it well. Use your time wisely. Hire an expert. Move on.
Yes, it is true it takes a lot of courage and a big leap of faith to face what isn’t working. So tell me – when is the last time you faced what wasn’t working? What action steps did you take to get past it? Leave your thoughts in the comments below.
I want to talk to you about a way that you can kick your marketing up a notch in the new year and start using a very well-established platform that not enough people are using. What is that? YouTube. Yes, I can already hear the groans, but definitely video is a marketing strategy that not enough people are using. Let’s talk about why that is.
The number one reason I run into when I talk to people about video is fear. They’re genuinely afraid of video. I was at a networking event last week and I heard a wonderful phrase: courage over comfort. That’s definitely how I would describe what most people need to have in order to get video going. Yes, it is courageous to put yourself out there on live video and put it on the internet where everybody will see you, but in order to establish yourself as a credible and trusted authority in your field, you have to be consistent with the information that you put out there and you have to build trust with the people that you’re meant to serve.
You can’t be in front of everybody all the time, face to face, but you can be in front of them with a consistent YouTube strategy. So no matter what time they’re looking for the kind of service you provide, if you have a good video marketing strategy in place, they will find you. That’s super important when you’re trying to reach the people you’re meant to serve, because people want to do business with the ones they know, like, and trust. If they see your face talking to them all the time online, they’re going to start to trust you.
So courage over comfort is definitely what I would recommend when it comes to video and getting started. You just got to take that leap and trust that the people you’re meant to serve are going to resonate with you. Just be yourself on the video. Don’t get caught up in “is my hair perfect, is my lighting perfect, is my backdrop perfect.” I did this video in my office just to show you. I’m here to talk to you and help you.
Another reason you want to use YouTube as a strategy is because YouTube is a content library. What do I mean by that? It’s not just a feed, like you see on Facebook. It is a content library. Most of the time when a Facebook Live video goes up there, you’re not going to see it for very long and it’s going to be even harder to find later on. Whereas on YouTube, it’s a content library system. So when they see your video, you can also put things into place where you can introduce them to another video in your library, and pretty soon they’re going to go to your channel and see all your videos in your library. You’re providing them with a constant source of the information that you want them to know about because it’s all in one place and it’s super easy to find.
I highly encourage that you take the time to be in front of people on a consistent basis and learn to have that courage over comfort. Reach the people that you are meant to serve with your friendly face, your personality and your knowledge. Also, if you need help, I’m happy to help you. I love doing this for my clients. Video is by far my favorite thing I do and it’s always a lot of fun, I promise. If you want more information, give me a call. You can reach me at dbrown@QueenBeeConsulting.com, or you can go to QueenBeeConsulting.com and check out my website, as well as just give me a call. I’m happy to work with you and develop a YouTube strategy and have a lot of fun in the process. I look forward to talking to you soon!